See, nobody is arguing that sex is evil or dirty or wrong or not fun. People are arguing that UNWANTED sex is not cool. You may not like it, but sex IS used as a weapon against people sometimes. Saying that it isn't, or that we shouldn't pay attention to cases when it is because that would cheapen the goodness of sex, is seriously missing the point.

There's no contradiction between the statements "sex is a fun and healthy part of life" and "let's keep semi-professional public environments professional". It sucks that some people are scum and will rape or sexually harass women, and yes that means people who don't get aspersions they normally wouldn't, but frankly the amount that that sucks is way less than the amount getting raped sucks, so please kindly get over it.